Poses & framing · 3 min read
What should I do with my hands in photos?
Use simple hand actions for standing and seated portraits, with comfortable fingers, natural props and a quick frame check instead of a rigid pose.
Read the guideA good pose is something you can comfortably do, not a shape you have to hold perfectly. Combine a small action with a simple background, then let the person taking the photo concentrate on the edges of the frame.

Choose the crop first: close portrait, waist-up or full body. Leave room around anything you want to keep.
Pick a comfortable action such as walking, adjusting a sleeve or turning toward a friend.
Check the background for objects crossing the head, tilted lines and distracting bright areas before taking more photos.
“I like the framing in this reference. Let’s keep the same amount of space around me, but I’ll do my own movement.”
Poses & framing · 3 min read
Use simple hand actions for standing and seated portraits, with comfortable fingers, natural props and a quick frame check instead of a rigid pose.
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Try simple walking, sitting and standing prompts that give your hands something to do and help your partner capture a relaxed expression.
Read the guideUse the InstaBF inspiration overlay to communicate a pose or composition, then adapt it to your own location and comfort.